Here to pick brains please!

Apologies for long thread, need to be clear
Ok, lower and upper controls arms removed, control arm shaft bushings were tight and assume were torqued correctly, and removed lower and upper controls arms,however, I failed to check the distance between the boss and the inside of the control arm where the 'spacer tool goes, so I don't know the original dimension to assist troubleshooting

After getting info of the forum, I produced a spacer (tool 3A5) with 20mm width and proceeded to install the bushings, I screwed them in till the gap closed on the spacer, removed the spacer and continued to torque to a point where it was continuing to close the 20mm gap. The good book says if you cant reach the specified torque (40ft Ibs - 60ft Ibs) new bushings are required.
So... are you usually able to re use the bushings or was the original torque / spacing on the control arms incorrect or do you need to replace the bushings once removed (as the thread that has been cut into the bushing when originally installed been disturbed?)
I have only attempted to install one of the 4 control arms assuming they have the same issue.
Will new bushings solve this and be able to cut a new thread or do I need oversive bushings to compensate for the wear on the control arm that creates the cut?
Thanks Renno